Domestic Abuse

Being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender means that you have the same right to be protected from domestic abuse in the same way as anyone else.

If you are suffering physical, sexual, emotional or financial abuse, or are being threatened or intimidated by a current or former partner, you have experienced domestic abuse. It can happen anywhere - a pub or club, in the street or at work - it doesn't just happen in your home environment.

You may be feeling frightened, isolated, ashamed and confused but you are not alone and above all, you do not have to suffer in silence; help is available.

Remember you are not to blame for what is happening. Your abuser is responsible for their actions - not you!

How can the police help?

If you are suffering abuse, you can contact the Police by ringing your local police station or by dialling 999 or 112 in an emergency. You may think that because you are in a same sex relationship your complaint will not be listened to or you will face ridicule or prejudice.

The first priority of the Police is to ensure your safety.
you will be dealt with sympathetically, professionally and will be spoken to separately from the person responsible for the abuse.
to protect you, we will take firm and positive action against your abuser and hold them accountable for their actions.

Is your family having problems?

Are people in your family having problems with you being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender?

When a family finds out someone they love is lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender, reactions for both sides can become stressful.

On some occasions family members can become abusive, threatening you emotionally and/or physically. Over time family's feelings of shame, anger, bitterness and disappointment often gets less, or goes completely. Some families react better than expected.

If you are experiencing abuse from your family or carer then you can make a difference by reporting it.

Report it !!!!

If you are lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender and are being abused within your relationship or family then you CAN make a difference by reporting it!

You don't have to press charges if you don't want to, but you will get the support and advice you need. A secure confidential place to stay can be arranged if needed.

Confidential Reporting Systems

Phone the police or a local agency for help and advice. Contact an incident reporting centre for advice and support. Report it and make a difference to your life.

For further details on domestic abuse and a list of organisations and resources click here

National contact numbers

Broken Rainbow Network 07812 644 914
24hr National Domestic Violence Helpline 0808 2000 247
Childline 0800 1111
National Drugs helpline 0800 77 66 00
Victim Support line 0845 30 30 900
The Samaritans 08457 90 90 90
Parentline Plus 0808 800 2222
Crimestoppers: 0800 555 111

There are a variety of groups and agencies in your area that can help. Contact your local police station for further information.